Christmas is Here: Hold on Tight

December 18, 2009 · Posted in Healing, It's not taboo to talk, Uncategorized · Comment 
Jack Frost Christmas Ornament

Jack Frost, Adam's Favorite Christmas Ornament

The tree is trimmed, lights are on the house, a wreath at the front door.  Cards arriving… unwritten cards in a box waiting for my attention.  I can’t seem to pick up a telephone to call a friend, nor a pen to write a note.  I’m doing what I need to do, but I feel like I’m walking through a pea-soup fog.

On January 11, it will be two years since my beautiful boy passed from this world.  I still can’t believe it.  It hits me most when I am in the car or in the shower.  That’s when I cry the most.

I thank God for the strength to continue to live and to love.   I’m incredibly blessed with my loving son, Andre, who makes me laugh, and gives me hope. I’m blessed with a family of strong survivors who know what matters.  We don’t focus on pettiness in our family, we’ve lost too much.   We’re holding on tight.

Vote for AFSP

December 2, 2009 · Posted in Uncategorized · Comment 

Please Vote for AFSP.  Chase is choosing its charities and is using the vote to make that choice.  If you would like to support the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, please visit the chase site linked below and enter your vote.

You will have to become a fan on the facebook page, but it is non-intrusive.  We have so much work to do to prevent suicide.  AFSP is very active in prevention on campuses and in the military.  Research projects focus on all aspects of suicide causes and prevention.